This week was mostly all about taking
care of unfinished business. Laura and I have been going round and round
with the MVD in Arizona to get the title for Mom and Dad’s Prius, and
they have been spectacularly unhelpful. The last
straws were last week when our agent in Phoenix (Mary from the estate
sale managers) couldn’t get a replacement title for the car because you
can’t use a POA to designate another POA. Then Mom wouldn’t sign a
specific POA document for them. So we were left
with the only option being one of us has to go. Laura couldn’t go until
the week of Thanksgiving, so I went. Even though I was not positive
that MVD wouldn’t pull another fast one on us when I was actually there.
Anyway Monday night I made the reservations
for a Tuesday afternoon flight. Laura overnighted a package to a UPS
Store with a notarized letter saying she couldn’t go to help pass the
POA responsibility to me. I brought the original POA and death
certificate, as well as a copy of Mom’s diagnosis; neither
Laura nor I could think of anything else we should need. Tuesday
afternoon I headed down to Indy and caught a flight (and by the way, I
had kept Dad’s American Airlines credit card open just in case I might
find the air points useful, in just such a situation,
but I found out they are not transferrable except to another AA points
member, and only if the other account has been open for more than 30
days. So it seems they deliberately set the rules of the air points
program to hose me) to Phoenix. I stopped and changed
planes in Las Vegas, which by appearances does not have an airport so
much as a casino with flights. I got to Sky Harbor around 8:30,
picked up the cheapest rental car I could find (Payless…I got a teensy
Ford Fiesta in which I kept closing my foot in the
door when I got in) and headed to an AirBnB. First time for that. I
joined when I booked the flight, and found a spare room in someone’s
house that I could stay in for about 30 bucks a night. Close to the
airport and everything. (It did feel weird just walking
into someone’s house though. After one of the guys met me when I
arrived, I just let myself in when I got there for the rest of the time,
whether they were there or not. I didn’t know if I should knock, or
just go in. I just went in.) Wednesday morning I was
ready and waiting at the UPS Store so I could pounce as soon as their
morning shipments came in, so I had Laura’s package by 10:00 and headed from there to the MVD in Tempe. The lady checking people in was all set to tell me why I couldn’t do that, but I had
an answer to everything so she just sent me to a line. After that it was anticlimactic. I had the title within 20 minutes
of arriving at the MVD. I did have to go back through the line again to
get the title re-issued in my name so I could just sign the thing
and make the transfer cleaner, but I had that done, the title signed
and notarized, and handed off to Mary within an hour. And with that, I
was done with what needed to be done in Phoenix. So, I spent the next
couple hours driving around anywhere I could think
of something that needed to be done. I went to the BBVA branch and
closed the checking account. I went to the State Farm office and
cancelled the Prius insurance. I drove by Mom and Dad’s house, not sure
why. Got lunch at Manuel’s, a Mexican place Mom and
Dad liked. Then killed the afternoon geocaching in South Mountain Park,
using the entrance by the house Mom and Dad used to live in. I even ran
into another couple of guys who were geocachers. They spotted me
pulling an ammo box out from behind some rocks
from atop the next hill over and found it themselves, then we searched
for the next one together before parting ways. So two finds for me, then
came up empty on the next two. I left when it started getting late
enough I got worried about it getting dark while
I was out in the park, which would be bad. I got dinner at Village Inn
for old time’s sake. The a flight back to Indy the next morning.
Alex was at ICYC this weekend. Since he was, the girls and I all went to see "Murder on the Orient Express," since we figured he wouldn't be all that interested. I liked it, but it seemed to me to be more of a TV movie than a movie movie.